Saturday, July 19, 2008

It's all up to you now....

You know what I'm sick of?

Having to wait for a ring in order to feel like I can discuss what I want in a wedding.

I watch ALOT (as in, I DVR every episode) of Rich Bride, Poor Bride and use it as a discussion starting point with Keith over what we like and what we don't. We also laugh at how psycho and stressed out the brides get (it's guilty laughter on my part, because I know I'm more than likely to turn into a basketcase the closer it gets to my wedding. ha.), tease each other on who's going to cry as I'm walking down the aisle, and shake our heads over the ones who spend zillions of dollars on silly things (one bride had a stretch hummer limo, a sportscar, a donkey, AND a helicopter for transportation. not for the wedding party or anything, just for them. Another bride had a walking dessert table. and candy apples as favours (which I secretly loved, shhhh).)

So I have all these ideas swirling around in my head, but I kinda feel ridiculous talking about it before I have a ring on my finger. Like I'd be jinxing it or something. Which is ridiculous, of course. Keith is still going to propose no matter what.

So I think I'll leave this one up to you guys. Do you want to hear about it, or not?


Heather said...

I thought all women had thought about their wedding ahead of time lol. Isnt it normal? I had ideas ahead of time about my dress, level of expense etc but not the finer details. You can feel free to rack my brains and ask me any details while you plan...I was only a mild bridezilla (I swore at Ryan only once, I told him "FOR FCUKS SAKE, JUST ORGANISE THE CAR-IT IS ALL I HAVE ASKED YOU TO DO FOR THE ENTIRE WEDDING!")

It wouldnt worry me if you talked about it at all!

Kelly said...

Ah weddings!

I want you to talk about it so I can live vicariously through you since I am about as likely to get married as I am to turn into a donkey.

sarah said...

Heather - I had little things like that too, like the season (fall) and expense, but I didn't really have any MAJOR things until marriage was on the table. Funny how that works, eh? ;)

Kelly - it won't be for at least another 5-6 years...:P shall I get the manger of hay ready for your transformation?

Kelly said...